Malini wrote a blog about one of her friends and I liked it so posted it here. Geo read it and wrote another blog starting with it breakup poetry. After reading all this I thought of contributing into it.
I can’t think of anything. I just have few questions.
“Is there someone in your life you need to talk to? Give a ring? Maybe just a smile perhaps….Do it. Don’t wait…for him/her to do it first.” What if it is one person who is making all the calls? Consider all the calls made from one side, it does not look like one person is trying all hard to push this and other person is trying to avoid? I am not talking about a girl-guy situation where there can be complications, but a simple scenario.
“Tomorrow will be another day.
Guess it’s too late to say the things to you
That you needed to hear me say.”
This is a scenario with a breakup from relationship, rite? Because I feel when it comes to real friends it is never late. I can’t understand what is the problem apologizing and getting back into the same state as before?
“Ultimately, the blame doesn’t rest on one individual. Both parties are culpable in differing ways. In the end, you have to take your share.” I feel the blame in most of the cases goes to one party only; sometimes one individual is too demanding, too possessive, very complex character and that leads to all misunderstanding. If both people are to be blamed I think it is a scenario where a solution can be reached.
