Lesson I learned


Few days back my mother asked me a question “Since your sister and other cousins are ready to get out of house and face the real world, what is the one thing that would you ask them to do (or not do)? What is the most important lesson you have learned in last 8 years?”

Answer to this was very simple – never keep yourself confined to one group.  Looking back I can see how mingling with different sets of people have made me learn so many new things. Mingling with different people not only help you adapt better and easier transition but also paves the way for new set of learning. Understanding others, their viewpoint rather than protesting and being reluctant to change, makes it much harder to adapt to new settings. In last 8 years, I moved to three different places – every place had different language, culture, eating habits, climate, political viewpoint but transitioning to any of the places was never a problem for me.

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  • http://twitter.com/Bengaloorubaale Supriya

    So true. Not just that – as we interact with different kind of people, we get an understanding of why certain people do things in 'certain' ways that we couldn't relate to or understand while being away from 'such a sect' of people – comfortable in your own comfort group.

  • http://susam.in/ Susam Pal

    I like this. This is a very important lesson I am realizing now. Earlier I used to feel that most people are not interesting and I should hang out with people of my kind only. But now, I realize that every person is interesting and every person can teach a lot only if we are ready to see. There is gold in every person and we should dig for it.

    I also agree very much with Supriya's comment above. After meeting various kinds of people and learning about their various experiences (some of which I would have called weird a few years back), I have realized that every person is different. I've understood that things I might find weird or I am unable to relate to, might still be very normal for many people.

  • jayantijain

    Your advise is alright at own place .Can one forget his own people? They r always with u in each situations without evaluating your role.